About whether "FITTING" into the standards.
We play many roles in our lives: Man or Woman, Straight or Homo, Professional, Spouse, Child, Father or Mother ...
This is normal, but the problem is when it puts a label on us that we must identify with in order to be accepted or to convey a socially accepted image.
In this case, we begin to see ourselves and see the world through limited lenses of this social Label and we distance ourselves from our Essence, which is much larger than the roles we assume and which does not fit in a box at all.
Therefore, we stop being human when we enter "social boxes", then we stop evolving, growing ... because we limit ourselves to standards and expectations about the roles we play.
Rather than becoming someone who fits, we should be what we naturally are, which is much bigger than social labels. We must allow ourselves to reinvent our Being and our life unlimitedly as we experience and expand.
Free yourself.